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Cleanliness is magical for both man and wife
 
2009-05-08 12:29:09
By Mohammedhussain Suleimanjee

Most men are surprised to learn that they too can enhance their sex appeal if they observe some simple steps in keeping themselves neat and inoffensive.

While the female is not generally stimulated by male nudity, she does find it appealing to be embraced by a partner who has a rugged and healthful scent

Jane was married for eight years. She and her husband were proud of their growing twins. They had a good bank account. Both were physically healthy. To all appearances, they should have been happy. But something was wrong.

They had been to see a marriage counsellor and Jane sobbed tearfully, ``We are growing farther apart. Maybe he has just lost interest in me.``

``Do you think he is seeing another woman?`` the counsellor asked boldly hoping to jolt her into revealing some aspect of their marriage she would not ordinarily bring to light.

``Certainly not!`` Jane was firm. ``John is not that sort. He has always been kind and tender to me.

Why, until a year or so ago we used to `come together` nearly every other night. Gradually it tapered off, until now he just does not show any signs of being interested in me.``

Further probing revealed that Jane was not frigid either. And as for young John in the prime of life, there did not seem to be anything wrong with his sexual powers.

A thorough physical examination of both partners did not appear to appear to show any organic or emotional disturbances.

Only a chance question provided the clue needed to discover why these two people were no longer sexually drawn together.

``Do you sleep soundly at night?`` the husband was asked.

``Sure - especially since we switched to twin beds from the double one that we used to share.``

``Why the change?`` was the casual query.
John hesitated, swallowed and seemed at a loss for words. ``Well, I do not have anything against Jane but... in the past few years, she`s become careless and rather sloppy about herself. You know, not as neat and...dainty as she was in the first two years of our married life.``

Now the entire causal factor was out in the open. By very cautious questioning, it was discovered that Jane had neglected the valuable practice of sex hygiene and made herself offensive to John, who, too, was growing careless about personal neatness. It is remarkable how many unhappy marriages have their start this way.

Sexual pleasure and sexual appeal depend largely upon an attractive figure and physique as well as cleanliness.

The woman who seeks sex appeal in the eye of the man who loves her, should take care not to offend either his visual or olfactory senses.

Speaking plainly, this means that when he sees her or sniffs her, he should become aroused and stimulated rather than repelled.

It ought not to be necessary (but unfortunately it is) to insist on the maintenance of personal neatness and the most scrupulous cleanliness of every part of the body.

Eye appeal is strong to the male sexual instinct. He differs from the female in this respect. He feels a throbbing at the sight of her.

To look upon a smooth, healthfully clean skin is even more exciting to his senses. If the female`s body is unhygienic, it will obviously diminish his passion.

Cleanliness is valuable for the entire female body. And for the sake of feminine charm, a daily bath is the first step towards well being and sex appeal.

The woman who becomes careless during her monthly period may be causing offence to those around her and this may also create a barrier to marital relationships.

It is strange how men too can detect the menstrual odour. Especially during this period, cleanliness is of particular importance.

A feminine body, soft and fragrant and dainty is most appealing to a man. Of course, perfume alone is only part of the answer.

It should not be used as camouflage but to supplement clean appearances. A highly stimulating scent is that of lavender (or that is my favourite) in all forms - whether as a sachet in linen compartments, or in soap, body powder, bath salts and toilet water.

The French call it ``vinaigre de toilette`` which is prepared with true lavender blossoms. Of course, you may choose what you both like.

Most men are surprised to learn that they too can enhance their sex appeal if they observe some simple steps in keeping themselves neat and inoffensive.

While the female is not generally stimulated by male nudity, she does find it appealing to be embraced by a partner who has a rugged and healthful scent about him.

The daily bath routine should also be followed by men. Those who are clean will do wise to see that their private parts are also immaculate.

When a husband is neat, clean and hygienically healthy, he presents a more virile picture, one that is equally stimulating to the wife since she understands that he cares enough to make himself pleasing to her.

And that is the real secret of sex appeal. Perfumes, douches, personal daintiness all add up to increased sexual pleasure.

A good sex life doesn`t reach the best, it gets better and better and better every time. Have a healthy, enjoyable sex life.

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  • SOURCE: Guardian
 
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